Christian Dating Relationship Advice

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I need a bit of Christian dating advice (reposted)?

This is a two part question. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 6 months now. I know that it is not a sin to simply have sexual desires, as all humans have them. But it’s gotten to where I’ve been thinking about those desires a lot here lately and it’s really building up. I don’t want this to be a lustful relationship (not at all). Is thinking about sex itself a sin even though i’ve already made a promise to myself that i would not have sex until i was married. Which brings me to my second question – i rlly think my girlfriend could very well be the one i’ll marry one day. Should i, being only the age of 17, be thinking about such things? Should the thought of marriage even cross my mind? please give advice if you can. God bless.

You’re probably not going to get a lot of answers to this, much less Christian answers, so let me give you one as a God-Lover with the same problems.

DO NOT have sex until marriage, so keep going strong there.

Thinking about sex is NOT a sin, but if you do start thinking about sex every minute, it is lust, a deadly sin. Try not to think about sex that much, and try getting even more connected to her emotionally side and her mind.

Thinking about marriage is NOT a sin, and is actually good. You are only 17, and I would say get married between 20 and 25, so around 23, and since you’ve only been going out for 6 months, it works. You should date 5 years before engagement (So age 21/22) and should be engaged for 1 year before a wedding (So age 22/23). I used that because you didn’t state if you started dating at 16 or 17 because you could’ve turned 17 yesterday for what I know.

Hope I helped, and God bless.

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